“There is nothing on this earth more to be prized than true friendship.”
Aquinas elevates genuine friendship above all earthly treasures.
When I first read these words by Thomas Aquinas, I felt a little warmth spread through my chest, much like the feeling of a cozy nest on a chilly morning. To prize something means to recognize its true worth, and the quote suggests that among all the treasures, riches, and achievements we might chase, nothing holds more value than a genuine connection with another soul. True friendship isn't just about having someone to laugh with during the sunny days; it is about the quiet, steady presence of someone who understands your heart without you having to say a single word.
In our busy, modern lives, it is so easy to get caught up in the pursuit of things that are temporary. We chase promotions, bigger houses, or more followers, often forgetting that these things cannot hold our hands when we are grieving or listen to our silly jokes when we are joyful. Real friendship is the anchor that keeps us from drifting away during life's storms. It is the shared silence, the inside jokes, and the unwavering support that makes the journey of life feel less daunting and much more beautiful.
I remember a time when I felt particularly overwhelmed, as if my feathers were all ruffled and I couldn't find my way back to calm. I was sitting by the pond, feeling quite lonely despite being surrounded by many others. Then, a dear friend waddled over, didn't ask any heavy questions, but simply sat beside me and shared a piece of bread. We didn't even talk much, but in that shared moment, the weight on my heart felt much lighter. That simple act of companionship reminded me that I wasn't navigating the currents of life all by myself.
We often take our friends for granted, assuming they will always be there, much like the sun rises every morning. But true friendship requires tending, much like a delicate garden. It needs time, vulnerability, and a lot of kindness. It is found in the small gestures, the checking-in texts, and the willingness to show up when things get messy.
Today, I want to encourage you to take a moment to look at the people in your life who make your world feel a little brighter. Perhaps you could send a quick message to someone you haven't spoken to in a while, or simply hold a moment of gratitude for the person who always knows how to make you smile. Let's cherish the treasures that truly matter.
