🌙 Solitude
The peace of wild things who do not tax their lives with forethought of grief
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Wild creatures teach the peace of living without anticipatory grief.

There is a profound, quiet magic in the way nature exists without the heavy weight of 'what ifs.' When Wendell Berry speaks about the peace of wild things, he is pointing us toward a state of being that is purely present. Animals do not spend their afternoons mourning the loss of a summer breeze or worrying about the coming winter frost before it even arrives. They simply exist in the warmth of the sun or the coolness of the shade. They live without taxing their spirits with the unnecessary rehearsal of future sorrows. It is a beautiful, albeit difficult, way of being that we often forget how to practice.

In our human lives, we are almost experts at living in a future that hasn't happened yet. We tend to build elaborate monuments of worry, constructing entire scenarios of grief and loss long before any actual hardship has touched our doorstep. We call this being prepared or being cautious, but more often than not, it is just a way of stealing our own joy. We carry the shadows of tomorrow into the sunlight of today, making our current moments much heavier than they ever needed to be. We lose the ability to feel the grass beneath our feet because we are too busy bracing for a storm that might never come.

I remember a time when I was feeling particularly overwhelmed by the sheer scale of my own anxieties. I was sitting by a small, murky pond, trying to figure out how I would manage my many responsibilities for the months ahead. I felt like I was drowning in a sea of mental checklists and imagined failures. Then, I noticed a tiny turtle sunning itself on a half-submerged log. It wasn't thinking about its survival strategy for next year or its place in the ecosystem; it was simply soaking up the heat. In that small, unbothered creature, I saw a mirror of the peace I was desperately lacking. It didn't need to solve the future; it just needed to be in the sun.

We can learn so much from that little turtle and the wild things that surround us. While we cannot completely ignore the realities of life, we can choose to stop rehearsing our grief. We can practice returning to the present moment whenever our minds begin to wander into those dark, speculative corridors of worry. It is a practice of letting go, of trusting that we have the strength to handle whatever comes when it actually arrives, rather than exhausting ourselves with the struggle of handling it now.

Today, I want to invite you to take a deep, intentional breath. Look around your immediate surroundings and find one thing that is happening right now, in this very second, that is peaceful. Perhaps it is the warmth of a cup of tea or the sound of a distant bird. Try to stay in that small, beautiful moment for as long as you can, leaving the heavy shadows of the future behind for just a little while.

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