Sometimes we try so hard to make our lives safe and predictable that we accidentally strip away all the flavor. Muriel Spark’s words are quite a wake-up call, aren't they? She suggests that without the awareness of our own mortality, life becomes something bland and hollow, like eating nothing but the whites of eggs. It sounds a bit harsh at first, but when you sit with it, you realize she is talking about the beauty of urgency. When we remember that our time is finite, every sunset, every deep conversation, and every daring leap becomes infinitely more precious. The fragility of life is exactly what gives it its shine.
In our everyday routines, it is so easy to fall into a state of autopilot. We wake up, complete our tasks, and scroll through our phones, all while feeling like we have an endless supply of tomorarks. We postpone our dreams and tuck our passions into a drawer, thinking we can get to them whenever we feel truly ready. But the truth is, the 'readiness' we are waiting for is an illusion. If we live as if we are immortal, we forget to taste the richness of the present moment. We end up living a life that is safe, but utterly insipid.
I remember a time when I felt stuck in that very loop. I was working a job that was fine, but I wasn't really alive in it. I was just going through the motions, much like a duck paddling aimlessly in a foggy pond. I kept telling myself I would start my creative projects once life became less busy. It wasn't until I faced a period of significant loss that I realized how quickly the fog can roll in. That loss forced me to look at my time differently. I realized that the fear of losing something is what actually drives us to cherish it. I started writing again, not because I had more time, but because I realized I didn't have forever.
It is okay to feel a little bit of weight when thinking about the fleeting nature of life, but try not to let it overwhelm you. Instead, let it be the seasoning that brings out the flavor in your daily experiences. Let the knowledge that today is a gift make you more intentional with your kindness, your work, and your rest. Don't settle for the plain whites of life when you could be enjoying the whole, vibrant egg.
Today, I want to encourage you to find one small way to add some passion to your routine. Is there a conversation you have been avoiding, or a hobby you have been neglecting? Take that small step toward something meaningful, simply because you can.
