Have you ever felt that heavy, nagging guilt creeping into your heart because you spent an entire afternoon doing absolutely nothing productive? We live in such a fast-paced world where every minute feels like it should be spent climbing a ladder or checking off a to-do list. But Marthe Troly-Curtin reminds us of a beautiful truth: the time you enjoy wasting is not actually wasted at all. When we allow ourselves to drift, to daydream, or to simply exist without an agenda, we aren't losing time; we are nourishing our souls.
In our daily lives, we often mistake busyness for importance. We rush through our morning coffee, we scroll through news feeds while eating lunch, and we treat our leisure time like a task to be completed as quickly as possible so we can get back to 'real' work. But real work includes the maintenance of our inner joy. If a moment brings you peace, laughter, or a sense of wonder, that moment has immense value, regardless of whether it produced a tangible result or a paycheck.
I remember a rainy Tuesday a few months ago when I felt completely overwhelmed by my writing deadlines. I felt like I had to push through the fog, but my mind was simply stuck. Instead of forcing it, I decided to sit by the window and watch the raindrops race down the glass for nearly an hour. I wasn't reading, I wasn't working, and I certainly wasn't being 'productive' in the traditional sense. But in that quiet, seemingly wasted hour, my spirit felt replenished. I came back to my desk not with more fatigue, but with a renewed sense of clarity and warmth.
It is so important to give yourself permission to linger in the moments that make you feel alive. Whether it is petting a sleepy cat, watching a sunset, or getting lost in a silly book, these are the fragments of life that make the struggle worthwhile. They are the anchors that keep us steady when the storms of life arrive.
Today, I want to gently encourage you to look at your schedule and find one small pocket of time to 'waste' intentionally. Don't do it because you have nothing else to do, but do it because you deserve the joy. Ask yourself, what is one beautiful, unproductive thing I can do just for the sake of enjoying it?
