When we hear the word power, our minds often jump to grand images of kings, superheroes, or powerful leaders commanding armies. But Plato’s wisdom reminds us that true character isn't found in the strength of our hands or the status of our titles, but in how we choose to treat those who can do nothing for us. Power, in its simplest form, is just the ability to influence a situation or another person. The real test of our soul is whether we use that influence to build bridges or to create walls.
In our everyday lives, power shows up in much quieter, more subtle ways. It is the authority a manager has over a team's workload, the influence a parent has over a child's self-esteem, or even the small amount of control we have in a social group. It is so easy to let a little bit of influence go to our heads, making us feel that our opinions are the only ones that matter or that we are exempt from the rules that apply to everyone else. However, true greatness is found in the humility we maintain even when we are in the driver's seat.
I remember a time when I was helping a friend organize a community garden project. One person in the group had a lot of experience and, quite frankly, a lot of say in how things were run. They had the power to decide which plants were chosen and who did the heavy lifting. Instead of using that position to dictate every single detail, they used it to listen. They made sure the quietest members of the group had a voice and used their expertise to support others rather than overshadow them. That person didn't just manage a garden; they nurtured a community, and that is the most beautiful use of power I have ever witnessed.
As you move through your week, I want you to take a moment to look at the small areas where you hold sway. Perhaps you are the one who decides the menu for a family dinner, or you are the one who leads a meeting at work. Ask yourself: am I using this moment to lift someone else up? Am I being kind with the influence I have? It is a gentle way to check in with your heart and ensure that your actions are leaving a trail of kindness behind you.
