Have you ever stopped to look at a beautiful stained-glass window in an old cathedral? When the sun hits it just right, the colors dance across the floor in a brilliant, dazzling display. It is easy to admire that brightness, but the real magic happens when the world outside turns dim. It is only when a light shines from the inside that the intricate patterns and deep hues truly come to life. This beautiful thought by Elisabeth Kübler-Ross reminds us that our true essence isn't defined by how we look when life is easy, but by the light we carry through our darkest moments.
In our daily lives, it is so simple to feel like we are only valuable when we are successful, happy, or performing well for others. We often focus on the 'sparkle'—the promotions, the smiles, and the sunny days. But life isn't always sunshine. We all face seasons of shadows, whether it is a sudden loss, a period of loneliness, or a quiet struggle with self-doubt. During these times, it can feel like our beauty has faded along with the light, but that isn't true at all. The darkness doesn't take away your beauty; it simply changes the way it is revealed.
I remember a time when I felt quite lost, much like a window obscured by heavy clouds. I was going through a period of deep transition, and I couldn't find my usual joy. I felt dull and unimportant. But as I sat quietly with my sadness, I began to discover a strength and a compassion within myself that I never knew existed. That internal light—that resilience and empathy—started to glow much brighter than my outward happiness ever had. It was a quiet, steady light that helped me navigate the shadows and find my way back to the sun.
We all have that inner glow, even if we can't see it right now. Your worth is not dependent on the brightness of your circumstances. Even when you feel surrounded by darkness, there is a part of you that remains luminous, waiting for the moment to shine through the cracks of your struggles. This internal light is made of your kindness, your courage, and your enduring spirit.
Today, I want to encourage you to check in with your inner light. If things feel a bit dark right now, don't be afraid of the shadows. Instead, try to nurture that small, flickering flame inside your heart. Ask yourself what small act of self-kindness you can perform to keep that light burning. You are much more beautiful than you realize, especially when you are brave enough to shine from within.
