Sometimes, when we finally find a moment of peace or a reason to smile, we instinctively look around to see if others are smiling with us. We want to share our light, but we often find ourselves dimming it because we are afraid of how our joy might be perceived. Mother Teresa’s words remind us that happiness is a personal sanctuary, and while it is beautiful to share, it is even more important to protect your right to be joyful, even if someone else is looking on with envy.

In our everyday lives, this often shows up in small, subtle ways. It might be the way we celebrate a promotion at work, or the quiet excitement we feel when we finally finish a personal project. We might find ourselves second-guessing our enthusiasm, wondering if our neighbors or colleagues are judging our success or feeling bitter about their own struggles. It is a heavy burden to carry the responsibility of managing other people's emotions, especially when those emotions have nothing to do with your own heart.

I remember a time when I was working on a small community garden, feeling so incredibly proud of the tiny sprouts emerging from the dirt. I was beaming with pride every time I walked past. However, I noticed a few neighbors casting skeptical or even slightly resentful glances my way, as if my small success was somehow an affront to them. For a moment, I felt a pang of guilt, almost wanting to apologize for being so happy about something so simple. But then I realized that my joy was meant for me and the earth, not for their approval.

We have to give ourselves permission to bloom, even if the shade around us feels a bit cold. Jealousy is often just a reflection of someone else's internal struggle, and it is not your job to fix that by staying unhappy. Your happiness is a gift to yourself and, eventually, a light that can inspire others to find their own, even if they aren't ready to admit it yet.

Today, I want to encourage you to hold onto your joy with both wings. If you feel a spark of happiness today, let it burn brightly. Don't shrink yourself to make others comfortable. Instead, take a deep breath and simply be happy, knowing that your light is yours to keep.