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“You are the sky and everything else is just the weather passing through with wonder at its changes”
Wonder observes the passing phenomena without losing itself in them.
Have you ever looked up at a vast, blue sky and felt a sudden sense of peace, even if a storm was brewing just on the horizon? Pema Chodron’s beautiful words remind us that our true essence is that steady, unchanging sky. The clouds, the rain, the heat, and the wind might change from minute to minute, but the sky itself remains whole and untouched. This perspective shifts everything about how we view our struggles. It suggests that our emotions, our anxieties, and our fleeting joys are not who we are, but simply weather patterns moving through our lives.
In our daily routines, it is so easy to mistake a thunderstorm for our entire identity. When we experience a day filled with frustration or a season of deep sadness, we tend to say, I am sad, or I am overwhelmed. We become so tangled in the clouds that we forget the sky is still there, holding space for it all. This way of thinking can be exhausting because it makes us feel like we are constantly being battered by the elements. But if we can learn to step back and observe the weather rather than becoming it, we find a much more stable ground to stand on.
I remember a time when I felt like a literal whirlwind. I was facing a series of small mishaps—a broken favorite mug, a missed deadline, and a cold that wouldn't quit. I felt like I was nothing but a grey, heavy fog. But then, I sat quietly by my window and watched the clouds drift by. I realized that even though I felt miserable, the 'me' that was watching the clouds was perfectly fine. The frustration was just a passing cloud. This realization didn't make the flu go away, but it stopped the frustration from defining my entire being. It allowed me to witness my discomfort with a sense of curiosity rather than fear.
As you move through your week, I invite you to try this gentle practice of observation. When a difficult emotion arises, try not to fight it or push it away. Instead, look at it as a passing cloud. Acknowledge its shape, its color, and its intensity, but remind yourself that you are the vast, beautiful sky that contains it. You are much larger and much more resilient than any storm you might face. Take a deep breath and let the weather pass, knowing that your true self remains bright and steady, waiting for the sun to peek through once again.
